week 6 fantasy vs. reality

Do you know waht is fantasy. For me it is a world created to escape from the problems that is present in the reality. We humans create a fantasy so called world in order to twist what is happening in the real world. Fantasy is like a medicine which gives a some how cure on what we experience in our real life. Sometimes we girls, believe that in our relationship espcially in love experience we always find our mr. right or prince charming. When we wre young we always believed that in every love story in fairyales there is always happy ending. That your prince charming will always rescue you from the wicked witch. But then in the reality it is not real we just imagine things because we want those people we love act like them our knight and shinning armor. Like in the story the girl is describe to be obessive compulsive person. At his mid old age her life is routined it is already set and anything that has changed from what she is used too she became alienated to it. as if everything will be knew to her. As the story goes by, this woman created an illussion about this young boy who was a vocalist in the band from where she always goes. She describe him as peterpan in the story.a nice little boy who take her to the neverland. but when this boy approached her she was shocked from the fact that what she described from her imagination is the real opposite. The guy is "maangas" from then on she never went to the bar again. The stories theme is that it is okay to create a fanstasy but then dont let it swallow our mind from the real things that surrounds us.